#+TITLE: Article: How to Maximize Serendipity
- tags :: people.david_perell, thinking.life_advice
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The best opportunities are the ones you never expected. =Serendipity is a skill, which means it can be learned=
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Build a serendipity vehicle
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Writing, podcasting, creating content Making yourself easier to find online.
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Maintain your website and publish content encouraging people to visit it.
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Invest in relationships built on trust, joy and mutual respect.
- Be a connector
- Rather than go to conferences - host events
- =Things We've Never Done Before=
- Prioritize your health
- Magnetism of energetic and engaged people.
- Work out with a friend?
- Zig and Zag
- Do lots of different things
- Cross-pollinate ideas by the people and activties you take part in
- Avoid boring people
- Ask questions, stay engaged, talk about the others interests.
- Find the fast flow
- Surround yourself with people who motiviate and inspire you
- Balance humility of not knowing where the next opportunity will come from and the arrogance of knowing that there will be a next opportuntity.
- Speak with passion and enthusiam. Write online. Be curious. Ask the other person.
- Ambient relationships
- Stay in subtle, regular contact
- Stay top of mind with the people who matter most
- Weekly news letter
- Call people on their birthday, when you think of a funny memory text.
- Reach out to people you haven't spoken to recently
- Twitter DM
- Send generous, thoughtful replies. Tweet so the people you admire most will follow you.
- Once they do, send them a direct message.
- Go first
- The upside is limitless, the downside is a sprinkle of embarrassment.
- Ask for help
- Make your ask loud and clear
- Make it easy for people to help you.